K-pop taught me how to be a critic. Then it taught me how to fight.

On stan Twitter, discourse, and the accidental education of a generation.

Jul 1
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Minjithe writer

The first argument I ever won on the internet was about a bridge. Specifically, a key change in the second bridge of a song I loved by a group I loved. I was thirteen. I lost sleep over it. I wrote 800 words. It was, by any adult measure, insane.

But here is the thing. That fight taught me how to build a case. Cite your source. Screenshot the receipt. Timestamp the interview. Anticipate the counterargument. Do not, under any circumstances, get emotional in the quote-tweet.

We learned to read a contract before we learned to read a lease. We learned to identify a bad-faith actor before we learned to identify a bad-faith politician. We learned that a beloved thing can also be a bad thing, and that both can be true, and that saying so is a moral obligation.

We learned to read a contract before we learned to read a lease.

— Minji Park

Adults keep asking why Gen Z girls are so 'aggressive online.' I want to answer them, but I am too busy fact-checking a label statement in three languages.

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